Joe Hardy
Amphitheater High School, Class of 1962


Joseph Stephen Hardy

From: On Behalf Of amphi62@technidigm.org
Sent: Wednesday, November 03, 2004 4:44 PM
To: amphi62@technidigm.org
Subject: Re: AMPHI62 computer security

Reply to TED [Wilson] and his security recommendations.

 (I STILL THINK OF YOU AS ''RALPH'', WHEN DID THE ''TED'' START?),

THANKS FOR THE INFO AND ALL OF YOUR HARD WORK!

IT WAS SO NICE TO SEE YOU AT THE TOUR AND GAME....AND TO SEE YOU LOOKIN' SO GOOD.

WHEN YOU ARE COMING THIS WAY I WOULD LIKE TO TREAT YOU TO LUNCH AND GET YOU TO SIGN MY VIETNAM VET BOOK.

PLEASE CONTINUE TO MARCH TOWARD COMPLETE HEALING!

JOE HARDY

292-0005
Subject:     PHOTO
Date:     Thu, 15 Jul 2004 08:30:49 EDT
From:     Joehchfc@aol.com
To:     cjones@technidigm.org

HI CHARLIE!
 
I AM ATTACHING A RECENT PICTURE IF YOU WOULD KINDLY ADD IT TO THE SITE.
 
I HAVE HAD A NICE EMAIL CORRESPONDENCE WITH MARGARET RAMSEY WHO READ MY ''MR STERRITT'' MEMORIES AND SENT SOME VERY NICE COMMENTS... YOU ARE  DOING A GREAT SERVICE FOR  YOUR CLASSMATES!
 Joe Hardy
THANKS AGAIN!
 
JOE HARDY


From: Charles R Jones
Sent: Jul 11, 2004 8:24 PM
To: Joehchfc@aol.com, amphi62@technidigm.org
Subject: AMPHI Re: MR STERRITT

Joe,
Thanks for sharing this.  We will always remember him.
Charlie


From: Joehchfc@aol.com
Sent: Jul 10, 2004 11:02 AM
To: cjones@technidigm.org
Subject: MR STERRITT

DEAR CHARLIE,

I WANT TO SHARE A FEW MEMORIES OF MR STERRITT WHO HAD A MOST PROFOUND IMPACT ON MY LIFE.........

I'M SURE THAT ALL OF US WHO HAD HIM FOR SENIOR ENGLISH WILL REMEMBER THE CRIES OF ANGUISH AS HE ANNOUNCED THAT WE WOULD BE DOING A LOT OF MEMORIZATION .....THE FIRST THING HE ASSIGNED WAS ''30 LINES FROM  MACBETH''...AS THE CHORUS OF ''BOO'S''' SUBSIDED I WENT BACK TO HIS DESK AND TOLD HIM THAT I SIMPLY COULDN'T MEMORIZE (BEING CAREFUL NOT TO TELL HIM THAT I WAS A WALKING TV GUIDE) AND SUGGESTED AN ALTERNATIVE ASSIGNMENT.  MR S SAID ''SURE YOU CAN MEMORIZE'' AND THEN TAUGHT ME A TECHNIQUE WHICH NOT ONLY GOT ME THROUGH THAT ASSIGNMENT  (I CAN STILL RECITE 35 LINES  TODAY)  BUT ALSO GAVE ME THE KEY TO ANALYTICAL THINKING.

I FOUND THAT I ACTUALLY ENJOYED MEMORIZATION!...A SHORT TIME LATER HE ANNOUNCED THAT WE WOULD ALL NOW MEMORIZE A SHAKESPEAREAN SONNET  (ANOTHER CHORUS ''BOOOOOOOO'')...I WENT BACK TO HIS DESK AND SAID 'ARE YOU READY?....'.SHALL I COMPARE THEE TO A SUMMER'S DAY, THOU ART MORE LOVELY AND MORE TEMPERATE......'''

I GOT AN ''A'' IN THE MEMORY WORK BUT SINCE OTHER ''STUFF'' WAS REQUIRED I MANAGED ONLY A ''C'' IN HIS CLASS

NOW FOR THE ''PROFOUND IMPACT'' MR S  HAD ON MY LIFE.....I GRADUATED #277 OUT OF 303 IN OUR CLASS...''THE BOTTOM 10%'' ...ADD TO THIS MY MARRIAGE AT AGE 17 AND WORKING UNTIL 1am THROUGHOUT MY SENIOR YEAR (I AM PROBABLY THE ONLY GUY WHO COULD SLEEP THRU TYPING CLASS!)  AND A DIVORCE AT AGE 18  AND YOU DON'T EXACTLY HAVE A PRESCRIPTION FOR SUCCESS IN LIFE (THE PREGNECY THAT PRECEEDED THE MARRIAGE ENDED IN A MISCARRIAGE IN OCT OF '61).  THE U OF A WOULD NOT ADMIT ME UNTIL I HAD 15 HOURS OF ''C'' OR BETTER IN NIGHT SCHOOL SO I WENT PART-TIME (DEVELOPING PREVIOUSLY  NONEXISTENT STUDY SKILLS)  WHILE WORKING FOR YOUNG/ZIMMERMAN BUICK UNTIL 1965 WHEN I BECAME A FULL TIME STUDENT GRADUATING IN '68 AND BEING COMMISSIONED INTO THE ARMY (COMBAT ENGINEERS) AND FOLLOWING MY VIETNAM TOUR RETURNED FOR FOR THE  MBA PROGRAM......IN A VERY REAL WAY ALLEN STERRITT SAVED MY LIFE ...WHEN HE TAUGHT THAT MEMORIZATION TECHNIQUE HE WAS HANDING ME THE KEY TO OVERCOMING MY UNDIAGNOSED LEARNING DISABILITIES!

I  RETURNED  FROM VIETNAM AND 3 WEEKS LATER FOUND MYSELF IN GRADUATE SCHOOL WHERE I MET JOYCE LEAGAN AND BEGAN  WHAT IS NOW A 33 YEAR LOVE STORY....SHE HAD TAUGHT LEARNING DISABLED KIDS IN FLORIDA AND CAME TO AZ TO GET  HER MASTERS IN ED....SHE DIAGNOSED THAT I HAVE DYSLEXIA (I SAID ''WHAT'S THAT'') ...THEY WEREN'T DIAGNOSING DYSLEXIA WHEN WE STARTED SCHOOL IN 1950.

THE WONDERFUL CONCLUSION TO THIS TESTIMONY TO MR STERRITT IS THAT HE CAME TO OUR HOME FOR LUNCH LAST OCTOBER AND I WAS ABLE TO SHARE THIS WITH HIM AND TO THANK HIM....AS I TOOK HIM BACK TO HIS RETIREMENT HOME ...HE HAD MOVED INTO SANTA CATALINA VILLAS  (WHICH IS IN OUR SUBDIVISION, ABOUT 3 BLOCKS AWAY!)  LAST SUMMER, WITH TEARS IN HIS EYES HE SAID ''PLEASE DON'T FORGET ME.''

FORGET ALLAN STERRITT?   IMPOSSIBLE, I HAVE HIM MEMORIZED!

JOE HARDY

From: Charles R Jones
Sent: Jul 9, 2004 4:03 PM
To: Joehchfc@aol.com
Subject: Re: WEBSITE

Joe,
 
Thanks for the note.  The class web site is http://technidigm.org/amphi62.htm , tacked on to my own little website at http://technidigm.org .  You probably do not realize that you have had your own page on the class web site for quite a while:  http://technidigm.org/contacts/hardyj.html .  You should send some more pictures and whatever additional info for me to add to it, keeping it current.
 
We live in Germantown, MD, so if you ever get to DC to visit, let me know.  Seems like it may be something to do near the end of the month.
 
We vacationed in Maine several years ago, had a great time in that National Park near Bar Harbor, Acadia. 
 
Keep in touch!
Charlie Jones


From: Joehchfc@aol.com
Sent: Jul 9, 2004 1:59 PM
To: cjones@technidigm.org
Subject: WEBSITE

HI CHARLIE!
 
PLEASE SEND ME THE WEBSITE ADDRESS...I HAVE HEARD SO MANY NICE THINGS ABOUT IT BUT HAVE ''BEEN THERE'' YET.
 
WE ARE A LITTLE CLOSER GEOGRAPHICALLY THAN USUAL....WE ARE IN HANCOCK POINT MAINE JUST NORTH OF BAR HARBOR FOR THE REST OF 4 WEEKS ENDING ON JUL 17....I DROVE OUT WITH OUR 90# DOG (I NOW SPEAK FLUENT SHEEPDOG) AND WE PICKED UP MY WIFE JOYCE AT THE BANGOR AIRPORT.
 
WE ARE TESTING THE WEATHER ON HER ARTHRITIS AND ALSO TESTING TELECOMMUTING ON MY BUSINESS...WE OWN SOME PROPERTY NEAR HERE AND HOPE TO BUILD SOMETIME IN THE NEXT 5 YEARS OR SO IF ALL GOES WELL, AND ESCAPE THE TUCSON SUMMMMMMMERS.
 
THANKS FOR ALL OF YOUR HARD WORK ON BEHALF OF OUR CLASS!
 
JOE HARDY
 
 
Subject:     EDITORIAL FROM A EUROPEAN PAPER
Date:     Fri, 19 Dec 2003 11:28:42 EST
From:     Joehchfc@aol.com

We rarely get a chance to see another country's editorial about the USA.

Read this excerpt from a Romanian Newspaper. The article was written by Mr.Cornel Nistorescu and published under the title "C"ntarea Americii meaning "Ode To America") on September 24, 2002, in the Romanian newspaper Evenimentulzilei ("The Daily Event" or "News of the Day").

~An Ode to America~

Why are Americans so united? They would not resemble one another even if you painted them all one color! They speak all the languages of the world and form an astonishing mixture of civilizations and religious beliefs.  Still, the American tragedy turned three hundred million people into a hand put on the heart.

Nobody rushed to accuse the White House, the army, and the secret services that they are only a bunch of losers. Nobody rushed to empty their bank accounts. Nobody rushed out onto the streets nearby to gape about. The Americans volunteered to donate blood and to give a helping hand.  After the first moments of panic, they raised their flag over the smoking ruins, putting on T-shirts, caps and ties in the colors of the national flag.

They placed flags on buildings and cars as if in every place and on every car a government official or the president was passing.  On every occasion, they started singing their traditional song: "God Bless America !" I watched the live broadcast and rerun after rerun for hours listening to the story of the guy who went down one hundred floors with a woman in a wheelchair without knowing who she was, or of the Californian hockey player, who gave his life fighting with the terrorists and prevented the plane from hitting a target that could have killed other hundreds or thousands of people.

How on earth were they able to respond united as one human being?  Imperceptibly, with every word and musical note, the memory of some turned into a modern myth of tragic heroes. And with every phone call, millions and millions of dollars were put in a collection aimed at rewarding not a man or a family, but a spirit, which no money can buy.

What on earth can unite the Americans in such a way? Their land? Their galloping history? Their economic Power? Money? I tried for hours to
find an answer, humming songs and murmuring phrases with the risk of sounding commonplace.

I thought things over, but I reached only one conclusion ... Only freedom can work such miracles.



Subject: A CHRISTMAS POEM
Date: Wed, 31 Dec 2003 17:17:44 EST
From: Joehchfc@aol.com

'Twas The Night of the Capture (A poetic Christmas tribute to the 4th I.D.)

'Twas 13th December, when deep in Iraq,
the 4th I.D. had a big enemy to track.
Saddam's stockings were smelly from months on the lam,
In hopes that Dean or Kerry would soon take command.

Our soldiers were nestled in their desert humvees,
they'd been told they were hunting Iraqi V.I.Ps;
And Saddam with head lice infesting his cap,
Had just settled down for an Iraqi-type nap,

When out on the farm there arose such a clatter,
He sprang from his shack to see what was the matter.
Away to his hideout he flew in a snit,
Tore open his pants leaping into the pit.

The searchlight on the dictator now caught in our snare,
Gave the lustre of mid-day to his nasty wild hair.
When, what to our soldiers' wide eyes should appear,
But a bedraggled old dictator cowering in fear!

Beneath the dirty old beard and the lice in his mane,
They were amazed to discover that it was Saddam Hussein.
More rapid than eagles they called up old Rummy,
And he whistled, and shouted, and said, "This is yummy!"

"Now, Condi! now, Sanchez! now, Cheney and Bush!
On, TV! on Radio! and Free Republic! Let's Rush!
To the top of the news! Get this video on!
Call FNC first! Then Dan Rather and Tom!

As a gloved doctor examined the smelly old goat,
he shoved a big wooden stick down Saddam's nasty throat,
Around the world in a flash the footage it flew,
As the French and Russians gulped, wondering what we now knew.

And then, in a twinkling, we heard from our leader
as he confirmed the capture of the despotic bottom feeder.
As he concluded his announcement, they replayed the scene,
(We heard nothing from Clark and nothing from Dean).

Saddam was covered in filth, from his head to his foot,
And his clothes were all greasy, with ashes and soot;
A bundle of money he had flung on his back,
And he looked like a peddler who'd sold out to Chirac.

His eyes -- how they sagged! his dimples now pits!
His forehead was covered with curious zits!
His head was examined for vermin and lice,
shaved his face of the beard that was his disguise;

A large piece of wood was probed in his mouth,
(And we don't even know if the gloved hand went South);
He still had a fat face but had lost his round belly,
His clothes were a shambles and his feet downright smelly.

He was skinny and drawn, the lying old coward,
And I laughed when I thought of the speech made by Howard;
But the spin of the media and a liberal talking head
Soon gave me to know I had nothing to dread;

Dean spoke not a word; Kerry went straight to work,
And tried to get airtime (sounds just like the jerk),
Bush kept it short, not given to prose,
And giving a nod, up the polls he rose;

He sprang back to work, to his team gave a whistle,
And to D.C. they flew like the down of a thistle.
But I heard him exclaim, as he went on his way,
"Happy Christmas to all -- God Bless the USA!"


Subject: REMEMBERING
Date: Fri, 26 Sep 2003 12:13:31 EDT
From: Joehchfc@aol.com
To: Joehchfc@aol.com


The proud warriors of Baker Company wanted to do something to pay  tribute to our fallen comrades. So since we are part of the only Marine Infantry Battalion left in Iraq the one way that we could think of doing that  is by taking a picture of Baker Company saying the way we feel. It would be awesome if you could find a way to share this with our fellow countrymen. I was wondering if there was any way to get this into your papers to let the world know that "WE HAVE NOT FORGOTTEN" and are  proud to serve our country."

Semper Fi
1st Sgt Dave Job

Remembering 9-11-01


Subject:     RE: THANKS!
Date:         Thu, 24 Jul 2003 01:12:00 -0500
From:        Charles, R, Jones
To:           Joehchfc@aol.com

Joe,

Not all CD burners are effective, I guess.  I just got a new one.  If you can look at it (the shiny side) and there are two different reflective regions, then the burner tried best it could and you might not be able to read it for several reasons.  I think I checked this already.  It is not an audio CD.  You need to treat it like a floppy as it just contains the online files.  Let me know if this info does not resolve the matter.

As for donations, about a dozen people out of the 90 or so folks that received the tape and CD asked about that and have donated about $250 towards the cost.  The total cost was about $500.

Best,
Charlie Jones


From: Joehchfc@aol.com [mailto:Joehchfc@aol.com]
Sent: Wednesday, July 23, 2003 7:03 PM
To: cjones@technidigm.org
Subject: THANKS!

CHARLIE...I GOT THE TAPE...WHAT A NOSTALGIA FEAST!

I AM CHAGRINED TO SAY THAT I DIDN'T RECOGNIZE MANY FOLKS THO THE NAMES WERE QUITE FAMILIAR!

THE CD WAS BLANK, HOWEVER...COULD YOU SEND ANOTHER? ARE YOU TAKING DONATIONS TO COVER COSTS?

WARM REGARDS,

JOE HARDY


From: Joehchfc@aol.com [mailto:Joehchfc@aol.com]
Sent: Monday, July 07, 2003 7:49 PM
To: cjones@technidigm.org
Subject: Nancy Adair

Hi C!

I saw Nancy for the 1st time in 40 + years at her Mom's funeral last Friday...she introduced me to her husband, Phil whom I recognized from ROTC days at the UA tho we had never spoken.  Phil and I chatted about our assignments in Vietnam and (somewhere between irony and coincidence) found out we got in country about the same time and were both assigned to the same job with the 41st Civil Affairs Company  (with a TO&E  personnel of about 100 men) attached to MACV and yet never crossed paths...I was in Phan Thiet on the So. China Sea and Phil was in the Central Highlands...I will  ALWAYS take the seacoast over virtually anything "Central!"...Phil was injured in an accident and sent to Japan in Dec '69, the Unit deactivated in Feb of '70 and I was sent down to the Mekong Delta to be a platoon leader in a  construction company...unlike many, I had a very good experience  (I  "grew up"  a lot) and still have friends from there that I see on an occasional basis and we carry on a regular email correspondence.

Where do you live now?  We travel quite a bit (business and pleasure) and if we are near you it would be fun to get together.

For some reason I never got the tape from the reunion...if I could get one I would appreciate it very much.

Our address is : 7591 N Camino Sin Vacas    Tucson  85718.

Warm Regards,

Joe Hardy

PS

A personal message is attached....it was in response to an article  by a reporter embedded in a combat unit in Iraq who interviewed  young guys who had killed people and were suffering the inevitable grief ...he asked for responses from Vets of other wars...we properly put a lot of emphasis on getting our feelings out today, so very hard for us "guys"....

C...please feel free to share this with others whom you feel might be helped.

J

 

"THOU SHALT NOT KILL"

4/12/20034:47:00 PM US Mountain Standard Time

Joehchfc

As a Vietnam vet who was responsible for an unnumbered but,probably many deaths in combat I can sure relate to the stories told in your story.

I went to Vietnam as a professed agnostic and upon my ETS (Effective Termination of Service) immediately following my tour at age 26 I returned to college, met my wife and got married. We graduated, established a careers, started a family (we have 2 adult sons), and got a lot of what our society considers success but something seemed missing in my life. Pascal, a great French thinker, said "there is a God-shaped vacuum at the heart of every person which can not be satisfied by an created thing but only by God Himself.". My vacuum was manifesting and, true to Pascal the "stuff" we were accumulating was of little satisfaction. A gradual progression occurred as I was drawn to the Christ I had denied and even mocked on many occasions and I became a Christian at age 32...that was when it started to "bug" me as came to realize that I needed to take a heartfelt look at my Vietnam experience. I found relief in exploring the meaning of the command "Thou shalt not kill" and found that "kill"" is better translated "murder" so the command is actually "Thou shalt not murder."

 

I would recommend to every soldier and marine suffering from the natural grief and guilt experienced by any normal human being in their position that they read in the Bible Romans chapter 13 which says that governments are authorized by God to have jurisdiction over people which includes declaring war or assessing taxes...Every one of our military personnel in this war is there by direct order of their government which is ultimately responsible to God for its conduct … the same applies to Saddam as the (former) leader of Iraq.

I found final freedom in reading and embracing Romans 8:1: "There is therefore NO CONDEMNATION for those

who are in Christ Jesus."

Respectfully submitted,

Joseph Hardy


From: Charles R Jones [mailto:cjones@technidigm.org]
Sent: Friday, March 07, 2003 2:23 PM
To: Joehchfc@aol.com
Subject: RE: AMPHI Classmates Info and Web Page

Joe,

Thanks for the address.  Will mail out a tape and CD soon.

No, I have not read about the West Point '66 class, but I am sure it would be interesting!  Just ordered it from Barnes and Noble.

Thanks!

Charlie


From: Joehchfc@aol.com [mailto:Joehchfc@aol.com]
Sent: Friday, March 07, 2003 11:18 AM
To: cjones@technidigm.org
Subject: Re: AMPHI Classmates Info and Web Page

C...my home is at

7501 N Camino  Sin Vacas
Tucson   85718

Have you read "The American Journey of the West Point Class of 1966?"...sure looks like  a good choice going to the Navy!!!!

I will comment further on your email soon...  many thanks for  getting back so soon.

Best Regards,

Joe


From: Charles R Jones [mailto:cjones@technidigm.org]
Sent: Thursday, March 06, 2003 5:19 PM
To: Joe Hardy
Cc: AMPHI1962

Subject: AMPHI Classmates Info and Web Page

Joe,

Thanks for getting in touch.  Again, I need your mailing address so that I can send you a copy of the website (data file) CD and a copy of the reunion video tape.  I guess I was the only one who took any video pictures, so I thought I would send a copy to the 75 or so people for whom we have valid addresses.  Jan Vecchio and Ted Wilson are helping to make copies of the video.

Also, since I am also the ad hoc webmaster for the class reunion web pages, I am sending out a "souvenir" copy of what is on the web site as of now.  There is a lot of class and reunion info at http://technidigm.org/amphi62.htm.  I will continue to update the site as long as I am able to.

Note that I can cleanup and upload whatever pictures and info you would like to put on your page.  There are links to each person's individual page, and some are far more extensive than others.  The Reunion 2002 pictures are extensive, and there is also a bit of music for those who can download and play the audio files.

As for Vietnam, my hat is off to anyone who was in the Army, especially junior officer targets.  I had decided in 1962 to take an appointment to the Naval Academy rather than West Point just to avoid being in your shoes!

I was afloat in Tonkin Gulf for two deployments to Vietnam, aboard the nuclear carrier USS ENTERPRISE, operating the reactor plants but also "driving" that 90k ton ship as Officer of the Deck.  Would you believe the Big E drives like a sports car?  We had lots of flight ops and even encountered Russian Bear bombers doing recon of our carrier battle group on different occasions.  We also managed to blow up the flight deck during training off Pearl as we deployed in 1969, killing 27 guys.  It took us three months to repair the damage, cutting our second deployment down to about 4 months rather than 7.

The Navy experience set me up for nuclear power plant consulting, which I continue to do even today.

How close did you get to the war?  I assume your CE stands for Combat Engineers, but don't know for sure.

Regards,
Charlie
cjones@technidigm.org


From Classmates.com:

From:    Joseph Hardy
Sent:    March 06, 2003 09:03:37
To:    Charles Jones
Subject:    RE: AMPHI Class of 1962 Reunion CD and Tape

Charlie...thanks, I'd love to see them! If it's either/or then either is fine.

I would enjoy visiting with you re: your naval career...I "retired" after 2 years as a 1Lt in the Army CE after 2 very interesting assigments in my RVN tour...please correspond with me at joehchfc@aol.com

All the best,

Joe


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